28 April 2016

「宋志堅、洪梓桀、邱鼎文、張慈如」

都很好聽好文藝的名字!好有氣質喔!都是我同事的名字。終覺得別人的中文名特好聽、取得跨啦啦!*羨慕的眼光*

雖說我有兩個中文名、卻兩個都不怎麼喜歡。好像沒什麼氣派可言。「鋒達」個人覺得挺粗魯的 -.-" 「林宏」雖說比較文靜但滿軟弱似的、對吧?我家長輩也太不計較名字的好壞了吧。。

身為未來小叔的我一定要為侄子或姪女爭取一個好聽又有氣質的中文名!p(^^)q

順提:目前熱烈討論中的名字為:
「軒」「翔」「建」「文」「萱」「凱」「桀」

順提 part 2: 大嫂已決定取用的英文名為Jacob(男孩)、Julia(女孩)- 怎麼都是些餅乾牌子的名字呀!?@.@
Chinese Name
Thursday, April 28, 2016

Chinese Name

26 April 2016

高以翔 vs 高雲翔

本以為是同一人、後才發現是兩位不同的藝人。左為高以翔(台灣模特兒)、右為高雲翔(中國藝人)。。名字也太相似了吧!*sweat*

我說兩位高先生啊、也太好看了吧!帥爆!

p/s: 本人比較喜歡Mr. 高(右邊那個)
Double。翔
Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Double。翔

23 April 2016

I used to talk about how I cried over J-dramas or any movies that deeply touches me. The truth is I only cried like pigs whenever I'm alone. Yes, I don't cry over movies or tv series in front of my family; there's tears of course but I'll try to hold it.

There's just something about having to stay and look emotionally strong in front of them. I'm not saying crying is a sign of emotionally weak but you know how it's always or tend to be associated as such. Perhaps it's the kind of upbringing in my family - boys or men of the (insert family surname here) has gotta be tough, rugged, buffed, macho, masculine.

Hmm.. Old-fashioned.

Sometimes I envy the females who can just freely cry out loud over any touching stories they watched or heard without having to be seen as weirdos. I bet if I'm to weep when watching movies with my siblings or cousins, they'd think I am crazy. Hurhurhurhur...

But yeah, that makes me a cry baby in the 'closet'. LOL (if u get what I mean). I also get goosebumps easily - which technically means I'm easily moved. I get goosebumps mostly from song lyrics these days. They said it's a sign of aging. When you were young, you simply listen to the melody and sing along to the song without truly making sense of the lyrics. And when you finally do, that's when your mind absorbs the true meaning of the story, touches your heart and gave you goosebumps; accompanied (or not) with a smile.. All of a sudden, the song you so often used to hum along to turns meaningful, you actually freaked out not noticing it's true beauty before this.

Silly hoo-mans!
No crying for boys
Saturday, April 23, 2016

No crying for boys

22 April 2016

This is a great day to be a good day.

The above statement comes from the predictive functionality of an iPhone keyboard. All I typed was the first word - 'This'. I was actually hoping it would create an actual sentence but all it did was repeating "is a great a day to be a good day" (I was expecting something - a story of some sort, that would be awesome...). Guess I over estimated the predictive function. Lol..

Is being predictable something yay or nay? Being predictable could mean those around you know you well enough they were able to predict your every steps based on their understanding of you. A good thing I suppose.. The downside of this could also mean, you are boring, unadventurous and constantly taking the same route, your every steps are ... well uhm, predictable. Hmm.. Sounds negative already eh?

I am not one who fancy the idea of predicting things; events, people, situations etc. Too much effort and not worth killing my already depleting brain cells thinking of outcomes that would come by naturally. Hence I DO NOT LIKE TO PREDICT what's gonna happen next in a movie / tv series!!!

Yes, this is in fact a rant post. All because my mom keeps on predicting what's gonna happen next while watching tv series ( I don't understand, why can't she just sit down and watch quietly? ) The story will eventually unfold and unveil itself right? Grrrr....!!
Scriptwriter
Friday, April 22, 2016

Scriptwriter

21 April 2016

最近很無聊的在experiment「睡覺」 vs 「開著音樂睡覺」。

「開著音樂睡覺」很意外地會讓你覺得睡了蠻久似的。どうして?ああ〜わからない。。平時的7-8小時的睡眠會因為音樂感覺起來像睡了10-12小似的。超有飽足感!

以後也應該會繼續開著iTunes睡覺吧。おやすみ!

Do sleep with your iTunes on ^^
Experiment 「S L E E P」
Thursday, April 21, 2016

Experiment 「S L E E P」

19 April 2016

So a colleague was ranting about work today and randomly disclosed her salary figure and much to my surprise, isn't anywhere near mine *shocked level 99*

Not knowing what or how to respond, I just remained silent and continue listening to her stories but can't help thinking inside my head - hmm.. we have the same title, same workload, same job scopes, same responsibilities , but I'm obviously 'overpaid' in comparison.

( I did, for a second, starts questioning myself if I deserve to be paid slightly higher; have I done enough to justify the pay? But heck, reality took over the very next second and I went 'well.. Life is unfair!' )

Yes of course that's not my fault (it's not right?), but it did made me feel bad and sorry for her in certain ways. Boooo... I hate talking about salaries!
Keeping it to yourself
Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Keeping it to yourself

17 April 2016

Mathematic lesson of the day:

Dating someone 10 years younger who is not mentally matured, can be or equivalent to dating someone 20 years younger.

due to: lacking common interests, no mutual conversations, hard time explaining life lessons, hard time understanding each other.

outcome: exhausting, challenging.

Good nite peeps!
Gap is true
Sunday, April 17, 2016

Gap is true

I did something one might say unethical today. Do I give a f*cking shit? No. Here's why..

Backtrack a lil', just about 3 weeks ago, one of my secondary school teacher added a large pool of ex-La Sallians (yes I'm a La Salle boy) into a whatsapp group chat for the very first time in 17 years and the first thing she said was asking for a donation drive (well, it's more of like buying tickets for a dinner but to me, it's all the same).

Well, only 2 out of 20 people responded to the text message - unsurprisingly really. Because who the f*ck would give a damn shit to someone who just randomly pops up and came knocking at your door asking for money?

Anyway fast forward 3 weeks later, she sent another message to the group. "So, I only get 2 responses", she said. Adding on that the ticket only cost RM200-300 per pax which she believe we could all afford. So another idiot responded. "Good, now I have 3 responses", she replied.

What just happened here? Seriously? She's STILL treating us like school kids as though we are obliged to answer to her? And who is she to ASSUME we are all doing well and that everyone could afford an RM200-300 for a stupid f*cking dinner?

So ladies and gentlemen, I immediately left the group without saying a word cuz I'm bloody disappointed and annoyed with it and guess what? 30minutes later she sent me a private message, "Hey moth, didn't even say hello and just left?". That's it! THAT'S THE LINE there!

Being the really bitchy me who doesn't care much about this entire never forget your alma mater secondary school shit thingy, I wrote her a long reply about:

1) how disappointed I am with her starting the conversation asking for a donation.

2) how she just assume we all did fine and everyone is well-off now.

3) how uncomfortable it is to be added into a group chat with 20 other secondary school juniors and seniors.

4) ..and how NOT FINE I am right now!

And I just click the SEND button like that, without even thinking whether or not this is ethical or immoral or whatever shit - I just wanna tell her how I feel so she would stop being a 'teacher' to all her 30-40 years old 'students'. Like wake up already ma'am , these grown up men are no longer your used-to-be teacher's pet! Stop commanding / ordering / forcing them like u used to. Show some respect la!

She replied not long after - explaining how she thought whatsapp would be an ideal method to send the messages across to everyone within such a short time frame. Didn't know I was offended and she apologized for that, and yada yada yada (I don't care , talk to my hand.. You get no more respect from me! You successfully destroyed your own good image yourself..)
No respect from me anymore
Sunday, April 17, 2016

No respect from me anymore

13 April 2016

最近和朋友一起逛街、毫不猶豫的拿了一件黑色衣服來看。朋友當場的反應是「黑色?還是不要吧、你跟黑色。。。」

我呆了一下,心想「黑色是怎麼了?」然後才忽然想起以前的我的確很抗拒「黑衣打扮」。不是不喜歡、而是每當穿著黑色衣物的時候、總會有些不愉快/不幸運的事情發生 - 所以我就跟「黑色」斷絕關係。不過那已是很久之前的事了。

手拿起那黑衣、望了朋友一下「噢,沒事啦。我已經不管那些了」。人大了、自然很多事情都可以放下、不那麼執著、也不想太在乎某些事情。

是好是壞、見仁見智。

以前的我很在乎一些小布拉吉的瑣碎事情、會很生氣、很懊惱、覺得很煩、比如說:

1)A4紙不可以皺皺的
2)倒霉的黑色衣服不可穿
3)說了吃什麼就不可以隨隨便更改
4)Get不到我笑話就覺得很懊惱
5)跟朋友喝茶的時候家人叫我打包食物
等等等等。。

現在聽起來真的什麼大不了。不知道從幾時開始、不知不覺的已沒在管這些無聊的事。看開了。

黑色衣服、我來啦!
Wednesday, April 13, 2016

11 April 2016

I actually prefer myself without glasses despite the thin eyebrow fact. S H A D D U P

Maybe I should go back to contact lenses... Maybe a pair of green lenses (should match the blonde hairstyle now)
Angmoh kia
Monday, April 11, 2016

Angmoh kia