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Financial Burden vs. Divorce

family just saying Getting a divorce is not the solution when you and your spouse have financial burden. More so when you have a child. Get real. Everyone hope for a better life, everyone wish there's plenty of money in their bank accounts but since you had chosen your life partner, don't take divorce like child's play. Though it may not be easy, there has to be a way out. You just have to give and take. Learn that you cannot hope for perfection for nothing is perfect in this world.

Forget ideal marriage, forget happily ever after living in the castle. If you really have financial burden, it takes 2 to tango. There's no such thing as ONE sole main breadwinner now. Either both of you find a job and get a bloody fixed income, or have one seek a better job somewhere else with better revenues (of course you will have to sacrifice time with your family but do prioritize). Some may say they are reluctant to leave their child under the care of other people (ie. nursery/parents) but puh-lease, be rational. If situation does not allow you to do so, have faith and leave the responsibility to them. Either that or stop complaining there's money problem. You have a child who is less than 24 months now and already you are complaining over the galaxy, how are you even able to cope when your child starts school?

Back to the question of getting divorce. So what after you get a divorce? Your responsibility doesn't just end there. Both of you will still need to work your ass off to bring up your child. So what's the difference? Might as well you plan things up and ahead and tackle the situation one step at a time. Bluerrghhh!